a lovely after note from a friend....Anu Reaney and yet, we all somehow muddle along, wishing, waiting, hoping, dreaming, grabbing at the sometimes elusive, sometimes ephemeral chances at happiness, with others and with ourselves. Life maybe tough, but its all we've got and I for one am happy just to be breathing. :-)re lu
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
The relationship maze....!
Some are lucky, some aren't, some fake it, some compromise, some have lowered expectations, some cant hold a conversation but need a lot of attention, some don't need intellectual stimulation, some happy with fake people, some happy with false promises, some happy just between the sheets, some too closed to open up 'between the sheets', some happy that they have someone "to show" that they are happy, some are getting it on the side, some have "open" relationships, some love the drama, some can't escape, some can't accept the truth, some live single while committed, some can never be committed, some can never be lonely, some cant run, some dont know any better, some convince themselves this is probably happiness, some are scared to let go, some are scared to hold on, some dont give themselves the chance, some cant give others a chance, some have unrealistic expectations, some expect the other person to make them happy, some blame their misery on the other person, some love even when they dont like, some like but cant get themselves to love, some blame it on fate, some blame it on time, some blame it on timing, some blame themselves, some think it's never their fault, some can never see the truth, some prefer to live far away thinking and wishing 'what if' when they are needed to be 'mentally' around, some get too needy, some get too greedy, some cant see the problems inside and around, some can see only the problems, some prefer to be single because they can't forget! some are single because they cant forgive the other, some are single because they cant forgive themselves! Phew!! Where do we stand...? Wherever we do, life is tough!!