Let's talk about SEX baby !!

Deep within the bowels of my ...mind (lest you guys assume i am going somewhere else!) there are a million thoughts!..about nothing and everything!. lemme start with my favourite topic..sex!.(Ok, now there are many antennas going up, I know!! Is he going to offend me by writing blasphemy? Is he crossing the line? Is he going to keep this blog clean or is he going to fall by the gutter?) Chill people..read on and decide! I am writing this after much confusion and clarity of chaotic thinking!
Woody allen said...sex is beautiful between two good looking people!, the trick is finding the right 2 goodlooking people and fitting in !!
Sex is dirty....if it is done right!!.. we spend so many years of our lives thinking about it ( all the hours of the days added together) wondering(for the uninititated!), pondering ( for the worriers of their performance earlier!), fantasising( for the newcomers!,pun intended), dreaming(for the love struck!), anticipating(for the starved kinds!),worrying( for the fat, over the hill kinds!),
dreading (for the many years married and/or the younger partner kinds!) readying ( for the viagra kinds;)) anticipating (for all!) ...we all spend time on it..but no, we dont wanna talk about it because it is taboo!..puhleeaase,..let's be grown up about it for a change. it is there, it exists , we all do it, we all did it and we are gonna do it till we die if we can help it!
I am so happy to see the days gone where women pretended to do men a favour by going to bed with a man! women pretended to do it because they are supposed to sacrifice for their man! women were told not to as much as squeal/let out a squeak.. when in bed with their man! Mothers told daughters to ration it lest the husband took it for granted! I am so glad to see the revolution come by and women come to terms with their individuality, their independence, their feminism, their wants and desires and not be afraid to voice them out and take what they need... from life and from the bedroom!. (here's to celebrating them and their freedom!) Sex is nothing but an expression of love !!
There are many men who still question women's virginity, look at their desires with suspect, question their experiences, judge their normal needs, balk at their desires and verify and compare their performance/ manliness caused by deep rooted insecurities!.
Well they are a dying breed that is still alive and thriving in this civilization! I really hope and pray for their extinction..or at least for that mindset! Dont get me wrong here..i am not condoning or talking about premarital sex ( and getting myself into shit load of trouble!) I am talking about a woman, today's woman...whether she is from the village or city, she has the right to have a healthy sex life and be happy with her partner who she chooses/chosen for her !
I was doing a lot of frantic pondering while i was doing my hurried yoga and then clarity collided with my confusion and created chaos in my already housefull pea brain! So decided to talk about sex and how normal it is for everyone and everybody! Vola.. no more taboo, no more whispering about it, no more unrequitted passion! We are all human beings and we all deserve happiness!
There are men who havent heard of the female orgasm and see her as a child bearing vessel! Trust me, I hear men talking and I hear women talking too!! MEN, get a life!! they have far outrun us in the thinking department, looks department(needless to say i guess!) achievements department (look at our president and the real president of the congress!!) look at our +2 results!! they have out run us, out gunned us, even out manned us!!
I guess any clever man would now say..ma'm what would be your wish? I will follow, you lead !! I am not deriding men, just asking them to relinquish the archaic dominance we have held for all these years and learn to treat the fairer sex as the stronger sex and the logical thinking and multitasking (which we cant do to save our manhood even !!) race of humanity! Respect them as we did our mothers, but let us not mistake them for our subserviant mothers!, A mistake I see a lot of men do and expect to dominate them like our fathers did our mothers (our mothers didnt have options,..due to lack of education, lack of support from their own parents, lack of finances, lack of role models!)..! A timewarp mistake that has caused many a divorces in our/this time !!
Respect the woman, respect her needs, respect her wants, respect her mind, respect her heart, respect the fact that she goes through hell, to give you children with your name... and you will have peace !! Forgetting which, men. you will be faced with ' hell hath no fury than a woman scorned'
I have been borne by a blessed woman, a blessed woman bore my child!
I have slept with women and not had sex!
I have had sex with women and didnt want to sleep with them !
I have loved some women but didnt lust after them!
I have lusted some women but didnt feel love !
I couldnt afford some women, but some offered to buy me(which i refused, of course!)
I have wanted some women for life, but life didnt let me keep them with me for life!
I have been wanted by some, but i didnt want to be kept !!
I have loved and lost! ..only to realise, that I have always been loved by the ones I have lost !!
SEX,. my friends, is not between two legs, it's between two ears !!
Hope i have not offended anyone and if I have, thats a bonus !!